I’m black, I’m a transfag, I’m disabled, and I’m a survivor of violence and abuse. I’m also a proud kinkster and active member in the BDSM/fetish community.… Read more “On Violence, My Black Body, and Healing Through Kink”
Tag: queer
What Have YOU Done for Black People Today?
At times like this, when Black people across the nation are rallying to promote the alarmingly simple viewpoint that we don’t deserve to have our lives taken… Read more “What Have YOU Done for Black People Today?”
The Top 7 Things You Need to Stop Saying to Trans* Folks Right Now.
You claim to be an ally of the trans* community or even a friend of an actual trans* person or two. Still, you have your concerns and,… Read more “The Top 7 Things You Need to Stop Saying to Trans* Folks Right Now.”
On (not) being trans
i’m not trans i’m not trans because i don’t want to talk to you about it because i’ll wear a dress to your wedding, i promise won’t… Read more “On (not) being trans”
old head
you can see cracks along our edges but our faces are young & vibrant and dewy like teenagers because we are like them too aren’t we? … Read more “old head”
On female masculinity
She stood up to a chorus of sucked teeth and irritated sighs. The old heads seated behind her on the bus just weren’t having it. She made… Read more “On female masculinity”
Emphatically Black 